February 29, 2012
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Bad relationships
There is only one reason why women stay in bad relationships. It's not because they're too stupid to realize they're being abused. It's not because they like getting hurt. It's not because they're too afraid of being alone. The woman stays because she clings to the hope that the man she fell in love with will come back. If he changed into this state, he can change back, and she'll be there to help him through, she'll be there to save him. How could she abandon him when he obviously needs help? She knew what he was like when he wasn't like this, and she hopes, all the while sustaining herself on memories. She hopes her love will bring him back.
The only way to get someone out of a bad relationship is to get her to give up hope, and that's a really hard thing to do when the person she still loves looks, talks, and feels exactly like this person who now hurts her.
How do you get her to give up hope?
Comments (5)
You don't. She has to come to that realization on her own. Unfortunately.
I suppose it's something she will have to learn on her own. It takes time but she will learn or someone close to her has to help come to this realization.
Maybe she stays because she has nowhere else to go.
this does not only apply to women.
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